It can be easy to live within your head, that you forget who you actually are. The economy, interest rates, and pressures of the World may make you feel small.
Let me fix something, You Are A Beast. Just a sleeping beast and now it is time to wake up and do what beasts do. No matter the situation you find yourself in, you can find a way out.
Sometimes our problems seem bigger than us. That client that does not seem to listen, no matter how many times and different ways we explain the situation, or the other agent who does not seem to be working for the transaction, but for themself... are just a few examples of the small problems we face.
Think about it, like sinking sand. You may say each 'small pebble' does not matter, but with enough pebbles piled up you are sinking faster. Those smaller problems can add up to larger magnitudes causing the big problems.
The big problems are the ones that seem out of our control...the finances, relationships, children, spouses, business, health, and the list goes on. We are not two dimensional creatures and problems do stack when they are not dealt with.
It only takes a million pebbles of problems to bury you. Every pebble in your life matters... and I would argue, now more than ever, is the time to pay attention.
What is that thing that you have been avoiding or putting off? For me it was my family over the last year because I did not feel like I could take off. "This is not the market," I would tell myself. I know this is the market to work harder than ever- especially before the big downswing that I felt coming.
The thing is though, when you are taking care of home, you are actually taking care of business too and vice versa. Each space needs your presence and welcomes your presence in the other spaces too.
If your World seems off right now, it is not just the economy and interest rates. It is how you are handling your entire World, from your health to your family as well.
IF you are wanting to increase your life, relationships, bank account, sales, health, or marriage...
START with small daily practices that bring you one step closer to the life you truly desire. That may mean:
15-30 minutes of alone time with your spouse daily
Waking up 30 minutes early to get a work out in before you start your day
Prepping your lunch and dinners
Giving up alcohol for a short period or more
Saying NO to people, things, and places that do not align with you. Any time you say 'yes' to something that is not aligning with you and where you want to go, you are wasting your time. It always ends the same.
Stop spending $5-$10 increments on dumb shit
Spark new conversations with random/new people (without the intent to sell them) and see how many more sales you end up having.
These are all ways that you can increase your entire life and I am PROOF that is true. I know times are not easy right now, BUT I am telling you....
YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES TO OVERCOME THIS.
If you are needing someone to talk to, Lets un-spaghetti your brain.
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